vacation 2010!

so we were going to take a big trip this year and go to disney, to visit my sister in cali and then home to va and nc to visit family. well jason is in mexico with the boat right now and he has decided to nix the summer vaca this year. he said that instead of taking the big vacation this year, he wants to save that money, take the kids to one of our parents and then him and i go to mexico or somewhere else in the carribean by ourselves!! you wont hear any complaining out of me! so now instead of making plans for disney im searching for vacation deals, i know its early but i wanna know where we are gonna go and how much its gonna cost. i would love to go home but jason said he doesnt know if we can do it. we can use miles and companion ticket and onbly have to pay like 850. but that means we have to choose between going to see my sister in cali or going to see my dad in va. decisions decisions